Reviewed by Anna Stusser
This is Between Us by Kevin Sampsell is an articulate and deliciously written novel which maps a relationship over the span of five years. Sampsell’s narrator addresses every tiny adorable anecdote with “you” as if the whole book is one long love letter. This creates an intimate relationship between reader and story; I felt included in all of the action, mishaps and triumphs.
The book dissects several misconceptions regarding long-term relationships. Myth number 1: When you have kids, you can no longer go out and have fun. Throughout the novel, the narrator goes out to bars with and without his partner without sacrificing time with his children. His son, Vince, and his stepdaughter, Maxine, go on tons of adventures with the narrator: bike rides, visits to the pumpkin patch … they even play robots with a ridiculous amount of tin foil. The kids are never seen as ‘burdens’ or obstacles that prevent the narrator and his partner from having a good time. The narrator’s children invite intimacy rather than standing in its way.
The book dissects several misconceptions regarding long-term relationships. Myth number 1: When you have kids, you can no longer go out and have fun. Throughout the novel, the narrator goes out to bars with and without his partner without sacrificing time with his children. His son, Vince, and his stepdaughter, Maxine, go on tons of adventures with the narrator: bike rides, visits to the pumpkin patch … they even play robots with a ridiculous amount of tin foil. The kids are never seen as ‘burdens’ or obstacles that prevent the narrator and his partner from having a good time. The narrator’s children invite intimacy rather than standing in its way.